Managing kids while moving to a new home

The word ‘moving’ itself brings a feeling of mixed emotions. The reason could be job transfer, death, cost of living or simply personal preferences. Strain relationships with family members or divorce could also be the reason. Whatever be the cause, kids are often affected. They become puzzled when their daily routine is disrupted. The thought of leaving behind their peers or neighbourhood friends can emotionally affect them.

However, family members can help ease the transition for their kids and make moving a positive and exciting adventure. Firstly, it is important to understand the personality and reaction of their kids. Some kids may take time to adjust to the move whereas the ‘other’ kinds being outgoing may adapt to the change instantly.

Parent’s time and attention is extremely important. A child may not understand the process of moving. Making him understand, giving reasons for the way the things are done would make the child feel secured. It is essential to encourage children and use their enthusiasm and energy for getting things done.

Bring children along to check out the new apartment. This will provide them with a fair idea of what the place looks like and also help reduce the fear of the unknown. Taking images or recordings of the new place would also be recommended.

Children may not be mentally developed to have friends in their new neighbourhood. Therefore it is crucial that the parents involve the child in potential activities and clubs. Involve children in decorating their own room in the new home. Let kids choose the colour scheme of the room; they can even help with the painting.

Talk to children about their fears, concerns and worries. They need to feel like they are part of the family and that their voice matters.  Try to make sure they are as prepared as possible for the move. Never ignore the downsides of leaving their home they new well. Lastly, on the day of the move, keep stress levels low, smile often and take frequent breaks to give your kids a hug.